When I set off to write this text, I asked my partner what she considers to be the feminist feminist thing she does. She thought for a while, gave a couple of loose examples, and then got frustrated with me for wasting her time and left the room to do her own thing. To be honest, this captures it pretty well. We started dating nearly seven years ago.

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I was polyamorous at the time and had two other girlfriends definitely also feminists who also had other partners. We all had a number of lovers and a free card to hook up with people at parties and otherwise. I loved my freedom. I was going through life like a plow: I had a decent job, was part of fun projects, had a good social circle, and had a bunch of lovers, and nothing stood in my path. I felt like I was rocking it, but…. But then my partner showed up. But no. She was a stone that gave me a new direction, and made my life more difficult but also much more interesting.

We spent years renegotiating our relationship to find a way of being open in a way that suits both of us. She wanted to move country, so we left Edinburgh. It turned out to be an excellent decision and we love it here.

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I have ideas on what I want us to do here, but she has hers. She fills her time with not-me. I started a band and she was my most devoted fan. She dances and I cheer for her every time. I write and she continues to inspire and challenge my ideas. She researches mental well-being and I help her apply it in practice. We do things I would never do on my own because she has this maddening quality of not agreeing to what I want.

I blame your column.

I thought I was totally rocking this life thing, but she has challenged me feminist rock even more. You have probably figured out by now that my partner also goes through life like a plow. I cannot think of anything better a partner could give me than to help me become my best possible self.

Sometimes, on the worse days, she gives in to her female upbringing. She people-pleases, she becomes unsure, and she agrees to things without really wanting to, just to not upset me or someone else.

If a sheep follows you, it means nothing. I can feel it. What a difference it makes to know people are with you because they want to, not because they have to! I feel I must be doing something awesome enough to attract a lioness, and her presence, her ideas, and her strength will only feminist it more awesome. I keep hearing about men who wish for a quiet, obedient wife who will not challenge dating in any way. A partner who has her own amazing life dating can support? A partner with whom you can both grow and inspire each other?

Everyone, hide! It’s a woman who knows her rights!

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